Mission: To guide men into deeper connection with themselves and their world for the purpose of living powerful, consciously awake, and service filled lives... We do this through transformational programs, coaching and counseling.

All men arrive at a point in their adult life where they could use a boost.

A boost can come in the form of a simple change of perspective, picking up some practices that improve awareness, or even finding a deeper reason for doing the things you do.


Signature Men’s Ongoing OfferinG

Open Deep and True

Introduction to Men’s Work


Join Director of Men’s Programs Tom Kelley for an introduction into the world of Men’s Work.

Every other Monday night from 7:30pm - 9:00pm
$20 per night

The structure and practices of a Men’s Group will be explained, demonstrated and demystified, making this an ideal event for a man with little to no experience in “Men’s Work” 

Men who take this workshop will leave with practices and learnings that will energize and deepen their lives and meet other “dedicated to their own growth” men along the way.


"If you don’t initiate your young men into the tribe, they will burn down the village just to feel the heat." 
- African proverb


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Pathfinders Program

Young Men 18-25


Pathfinders: For Young Men Who Want to Lead Their Own Lives

Feel It?

Tired of the same old, same old - things lacking energy, school or work feeling pointless, not feeling understood? Is there something in you that wants more? That wants people in your life who are  excited about stuff, curious to explore, ready to take risks, to try new things, to have real conversations?

Can you can feel that? 

That desire is in you. But you may not be tuned into it yet, because the things you do everyday do not even come close to matching that feeling in you of what you really want...of how you want your life to be. That desire, that “call”, feels far away. 

But you do want your life to be different...more exciting...more interesting. You want to do something that matters. You want to have awesome friends. You want to feel successful. You want what you do to make a difference and have some kind of impact! This is the call - this feeling of not wanting life to suck - of wanting your life to Thrive! 

If wanting your life to Thrive is living in you, then you are not alone! If you are anything like us, beneath all the lazy, bored bullshit, you are ready to go after it! 

That’s good, because that’s what we’re doing. And we’d love you to join us!


Are You a young guy between the age of 18 and 25 who wishes to: 

  • Be clear about who you are, what you want, and how to get it?
  • Participate in Fun, Challenging Activities that have a point?
  • Discover And Create Your Life’s Direction...On Your Terms?
  • Develop Meaningful Friendships and Relationships?
  • Experience being successful in learning things that matter to you?
  • Trust Your Sense Of Purpose?
  • Understand and Trust Your Unique Gifts and Abilities?
  • Explore Deep Questions Within A Community Of Like Minded People?
  • Make a Difference in Big Ways?

If this is you, please read on.

Life is tough...

We get it, it is hard being young guy today. You are supposed to be motivated so you can do well in school, get good grades, get into the best college, get the right job, in order to have a good life. You are supposed to be responsible, work hard, care about what you are doing, and have a clear understanding about what you want to do with your life. You are supposed to have friends, feel confident, and not be lonely or insecure.

How is that going for you?

There is a different way. A way that you feel your connection to your own motivation, your own call to action. No more being told what to do, but rather, finding out what you are MEANT to do.

Is this sounding like something that inspires you?

We created Pathfinders for the young man who wants to get traction in his life. The guy who is ready to step into his greatness on his terms. 

We know it is possible for you to feel confident, inspired, passionate, connected, and have the clarity you need to really make a difference in the world. We know your knowing “who you are” and “what you want” is available to you. We know you can be part of this elite group.. 

Who is it for?

Young Men...

  • from 18 - 25
  • hungry to feel productive and part of an awesome team
  • tired of feeling confused, stuck, and uncertain
  • from anywhere in the world
  • from any background, culture or spiritual worldview
  • who strongly desire to take leadership of and become the master of your own life
  • who are unwilling to settle for a life of mediocrity and boredom
  • who are ready to commit themselves to showing up and feeling alive

What can I expect?

  • A 6 - month journey to discover “Who am I?” “What do I want to do with my life?” “How do I do make it happen?”
  • To feel clear and confident that you can have the life you want...and inspired to go after it!
  • To laugh, to feel inspired, to experience the opposite of bored and numb
  • A place you can find yourself, say what you want to say, feel what you need to feel, and call bullshit on whatever you need to call bullshit on
  • An adventure to a land out beyond the place where you worry what people think of you, past those spots where people attack you, far away from where you are lonely and powerless
  • An experience that matches that desire in you to THRIVE with the other people in this world getting after life, taking it seriously in a engaged and powerful way, chasing excellence, and determined to find deep, meaningful, revolutionary learning
  • To venture beyond the surface level crap into the mucky, uncomfortable, mysterious, but deeply compelling spaces we all are starving for - but are unsure about
  • Weekly online face-to-face “sweat lodge” gathering
  • A final in person transition ceremony (i.e. a “Rite of Passage”) you will help design and execute...and you will remember and cherish forever
  • To be challenged in a way that you want to be challenged - with a care and commitment you’ve never experienced
  • A maximum of 12 young men per group
  • To learn how to cultivate daily practices - crucial to the life you want!
  • To create a solid foundation for your life as a man in today’s world, built on the unique gifts you were born to give
  • To build a “team” that will always be with you to guide you, protect you, inspire you, and help keep you connected to your genius
  • To practice showing up and dancing with the uncomfortable and challenging things in your life
  • Ongoing mentorship and coaching is available as an addition on completion of the program

How will it happen?

  • A 2 - day weekend kick-off adventure to get to know each other, yourself, and what this wild quest is all about
  • 1 1/2 hour weekly meetings
    • topic presentation
    • personal sharing
    • peer group discussion
  • Weekly “practice buddy” connections – self guided with suggestions provided
  • Ongoing worksheets, exercises and self observations
  • Private Facebook group with open discussions, exploration and sharing
  • Ongoing text and email check-ins with team
  • Phone access with facilitator as required
  • Concluding with a transition ceremony and contemporary ‘Rite of Passage’ to reflect on your program experience, integrate your discoveries, embed your commitments and propel your initiation into your next phase of manhood.

On the road to saying “Yes!”

We know it might be hard to say “Yes!”  even though you really want to - that you will be tempted to do it “later” or you think you can do it alone. 

Right now is the time to become a PATHFINDER - why wait? It will not be easier to go for it “later”. It will actually be harder.  THIS IS THE TIME.  You may be able to do it on your own, but we know this journey is more effectively navigated as part of a team, with supportive mentors and brothers at your side every step of the way - in other words, you will get more out of your launch doing it with others.